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Two questions that changed my life

career coaching questions career mindset career satisfaction practical advice Aug 23, 2024

Back in February, I spent 35 days in the hospital, 10 days in the ICU, and endured 8 surgeries.

Before this, I focused on my career, fun, and adventure but often found myself lost in thoughts about the past or future, rarely living in the present.

During my hospital stay, the pain was unbearable, leading to moments of deep uncertainty. Yet, I found comfort in the simplest things—the touch of my father's hand, my mother's efforts to distract me, my husband's embrace, and my newborn's snuggles.

Everyday activities like eating or just using the bathroom took on new meaning, reminding me to cherish every moment.

When I lost my sense of presence and was overwhelmed by thoughts of the past or future, I sought guidance from military chaplain, Major Kim.

Instead of offering platitudes, he asked, "How would you evaluate your life so far?" Reflecting on my career, relationships, and adventures, I felt satisfaction.

But then he asked, "What do you want to change moving forward?" This question struck me deeply. I realized that instead of dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, I wanted to take what I was learning in the hospital to embrace the present and savor the small moments that bring joy.

As a career coach, I know how intertwined our work is with life satisfaction. So, I ask you: How would you evaluate your life and career so far, and what would you change moving forward?

Finding fulfillment in your career can greatly enhance your overall happiness.

Sending love and wishing you abundant joy,

Danielle

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